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name: shan hong & erwin
age: 23 & 29
b'day: 26thDec & 9thNov

ROM date: 07/07/07
ROM venue:
masonic club garden
@ love that binds

Pre Wedding Photoshoot:
Ivory Romance,JB,Skudai
Indoor PS: 16/07/07
Outdoor PS: 17/07/07

Actual Day: 26/01/08
AD Banquet:
Peony Jade@Quayside

AD Photographer:
Desmond Ho
wedding_photog@yahoo.com.sg

AD Videographer:
sam tan from
www.vocaremedia.com

AD MUA:
kelly chong from
yourwishwedding.com.sg


Intended HoneyMoon:
Maldives or Japan

Love Nest:
Punggol, Coralinus
get Keys! 07 Jan 09
moved in 01 Mar 09


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A reminder in life
to appreciate things that
you have, not grouse
about what you don't have

Love is magical.
Its a language the deaf can hear
a song the crippled can dance to
and a sunset that the blind can see


There is nothing in the world that love can't conquer


Money can buy many fine things, but love, peace, and happiness are the most precious treasures to be found


To show someone that you love them,give them you time


Great man are not born great. God uses troubles and trials to make them great


When someone has wronged you, repay them with forgiveness and it will be remembered forever


When you feel like giving up, hold on just a little longer


The secret to happiness is being content with what you have


The tongue is a sword or a magic wand: it can cut and kill or love and heal


Life is a journey, heaven is a destination


Those who live unselfishly are those who have a life that's most worth living

It's not as difficult to apologize as it is to live with a guilty conscience


A word of encouragement is as refreshing as a cold drink on a hot summer day


Happiness comes from within your heart, not from your surroundings


It's not always what you say that makes the difference; somestimes its the way you say it


It's how you handle your problems and troubles that counts, not the trouble themselves


Hatred in our hearts causes our enemies to triumph over us. Forgiveness causes us to triumph over them


Love is the essence of everything beautiful, the force behind everything wonderful


If something bad happens to you, think of all the things that didnt happen. Things could have been worse


A working man must not forget the art of playing, lest he lose the energy and inspiration needed for his work


Optimism is not the result of blinding oneself to problems, but of always believing there is a solution


Knowledge is a collection of facts. Wisdom is knowing how to apply knowledge


Love is the ability to see beyond the faults of another and to discover the beauties of his or her heart


Whether you suceed or fail is not as important as whether you do your best


You may not be able to choose you lot in life, but you can choose how to handle your lot


Be thankful for what you have,not sad about what you don't have


Be part of the solution, not part of the problem


Great souls are often those who have undergone great sorrows but have refused to give up


Love and trust are inseparable. You can't have one without the other


Monday, October 15, 2007




I have confirmed my videographer, i chose Sam Tan from Vocare. He is quite good... capture the moments... gave us good advices... he even have a sample of a couple's video at peony jade...


6th Oct, went to royal hotel to attend erwin's colleagues (ben and cindy) wedding... hope that they have a blissful marriage.. the wedding was a simple one... no games no nothing... just the basic yum send, cake cutting, champagne pouring, and 2 march-ins....

7th Oct, i had a fondue party at my house... the chocolate was really nice...



12th Oct, today we celebrated my boss's bday... his actual bday is on the 15th oct... but becos his bday falls on our company's public holiday, thus, we celebrated on on friday... we surprised him with gifts, cakes and dinner after work... hard work wor... the cake was really nice.. it was an enjoyable day and in fact brought our relationship among my colleagues closer...






13th Oct, we had a stall at lime bazaar... its was really bad... the ppl in-charge of the lime bazaar... din have my name in the list... and have to make another stall somewhere for us... and it rained in the middle of the afternoon also... thus, it probably affected our business... sales was good... total takings was $250.50... today sujuan, jinny, szemin came over to my stall to pay me a visit... really appreciated it... esp. sujuan... helped me out abit here and there... and even stand in the rain also... hugs and kisses for sujuan... then after we closed... we went over to pasta mania for dinner.. so qiao... saw jinny and szemin again... but along with cindy,jackson and their friend... chatted with them awhile before we left for mustafa... at mustafa, we bought victoria secret's body splash... the smell was nice... what i earned during the bazaar was spent on two bottles of victoria secrets... sobsobs...




14th oct, at last, can go bridal shop to see my photos liao... i have posted some photos of the album... haven officially get the photos yet...
then also have to choose the actual day gown le... end up i chose an unconventional kind... hopes its nice... do give me some of ur comments...
was considering this.. but end up din choose it...this is the gown that i will be wearing for my actual day... it has black ribbons and embroideries...
this is the back of the gown... actually i dun like the two black ribbons there... if anyone got any idea what i can do to make the gown better... do let me know also...
here are some of the album's photos... do give me ur comments too... alittle out of propotion though.... not sure if i save it wrongly....





this is the wall picture "chuang tou zhao"...

coming week, nothing much on the agenda... jus a shorter working week for me.. cos 15th Oct no need to work and 17th Oct im on afternoon leave.. yea!!!

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Wednesday, October 3, 2007

24th Sep is the first day of work at Bilcare, my new company. a coincidence that its also the first day of Bilcare's new CEO. thus, was slightly neglected by HR... haa... this first week i would say i have a cultural shock ba... a new environment thus, the working style,environment and culture is something that i have to get used to. the major difference, i would say is the lunch thing... becos of the lack of public transport access to the place.. lunch is a problem... the nearest place where things are edible would be at simei, eastpoint... and if u wan to go there, you are only left with 30mins due to the time taken to travel to and fro and the allocated time slots that the shuttle bus will arrive... thus, the result is that i brought home cooked food to work... In a way, im saving money... as i wun have the opportunity to shop, or even spend on food and drinks while at work... jus this one week at my new workplace, caused me to gain 1kg, which i haven figured out why... maybe becos i dun get to eat lunch outside, thus, not much of walking...

met up with ray and kelly on saturday, we finally decided to meet up at esplanade, ichiban boshi.. we ate quite alot of things... the total bill cost us about $97. when we first saw ray, it din feel like we have not met for long... it felt like we have already met yesterday... i think its good to feel that way... otherwise, we would feel like strangers instead...

this week din do much on preparing my wedding... jus looked up some make up artist's webby but haven come to a conclusion on who to use.. cos we saw one quite nice de... but on the singaporebrides forum, there were a number of ppl commenting about her being late and showing her attitude... thus, i was quite concerned... now still on a lookout for makeup artist and videographer...

hmmm... on sunday, i was packing my things, looking for things that i dun wan so that i can sell them off during the 13th oct lime bazaar... after that, suddenly felt like painting my living room's wall... thus, asked my brother to help out... then i was sweat, dizzy and tired while trying to tape the aircon, ceiling,etc before i start painting the wall... it took us about 2hours to paint one wall... all of us were sweating profusely, which i dunno why... we actually run out of paint when we were finishing soon.. the top part of the wall where the aircon is... we din paint as we thought that no one would be able to see it... but we were wrong... after washing the brushes, rollers, etc... when we are standing at the main door, we could obviously see that part which is supposed to be painted is not painted... haiz... no choice.. cos we seriously run out of paint...

next week, gonna meet up a videographer to see their works, gonna attend a wedding on sat and having fondue on sunday... as i bought the fondue fountain which i always wanted...

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Monday, September 24, 2007

gosh... din have the time to update... as was busy working and handing over to the temp staff who is taking over me... I was supposed to teach a new staff, however, she is only able to join in Nov'2007... then there was farewell dinner at serangoon garden at cafe cartel... i had a sirloin steak... it was the first time that i had medium rare steak... it was so bloody... i wun wanna try medium rare again... medium is jus nice for me... perhaps will post some of the photos of my colleagues soon... i miss working at IMH... sobsobs.. somehow, have a tinge of regret that i resigned from IMH... everyone is so nice.. the work environment is also nice.. haiz... Hope that it is not a wrong choice to join Bilcare... hope i get the opportunity to learn more things... hope i can learn and adapt soon... Im really in no mood to talk much about what happen during the week... but during my last month at IMH, i was feeling both happy and sad... happy that i have nice colleagues, sad that im leaving them...

Update about my wedding preparation... im in the midst of looking for my actual day makeup artist.. i have rented a "Kua" for my wedding day... to wear during tea ceremony and also when i thank guests for attending the banquet... i also rented a "kua" for my mother.. to wear during the tea ceremony and the banquet...

Had a Lime Bazaar on Sep22, we were late for the set up of the stall... we actually started setting up the stall at 1pm... business was brisk... we were busy but happy with the sales... at least this is the best sales among our previous bazaar sales... we raked up to $395 of sales at the end of the day... we have so many customers until we were the last stall to close shop.. even the workers who are keeping the tables, chairs and umbrella, had to chase us away... A good start... Luckily we managed to get a stall at the Lime Bazaar on the Oct13 also... hope we get back the same spot also... if you are free, do come down and look for us also... =)

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Sunday, September 9, 2007

This week, i started to look out for my Actual Day(AD) photographer. It suddenly came to me that i have to start looking for one. On Monday, i spent my nite after work looking through the wedding forums like Style wedding, SGbrides for recommendations.



On Tuesday, i spotted a particular thread, recommending their own AD photographer and it attracted alot of positive comments from other people also. Thus, i decided to email the photographer to look at his works. He then gave me his website showing a few of his works. Then, i asked kelly, adrian, annie and of course erwin to view it, see whether it is good or not... kelly and adrian said that the pictures are normal. But annie thinks that its not bad.. i came across another website that is taken by professionals... and i was comparing between the both of them... I was thinking of choosing one between the two... after one day of picture viewing and discussion on the photos with annie and erwin... i decided to meet up with desmond ho (email:wedding_photog@yahoo.com.sg) We think that his photos captured are fun and natural... it is the kind of photos that i would want to take for my wedding...



On wednesday, after work, erwin asked me to go Zouk... It has been a long time since i last went to Zouk. I think i haven been to Zouk for more than a year already... after some persuasion by him, i decided to go... So i quickly changed a top and off we go... we reached at about 10pm... xiaoqi said that she would only reach at about 11+pm. Thus, we went over to Grand Corpthrone Hotel's "The Piano Bar".. The atmosphere is not bad... we sat on a comfy sofa, the lights are dim orange. We then order a bucket of 5 bottles "erdinger white" which cost $40 before GST and service charge...





Their peanuts so high class.. their ikan bilis are so big size and they use cashew nuts... not those cheap kind of peanuts that you get in those pubs... in the bowl, there is also lemongrass leaves?, and dried chilli... the dried chilli is so damn hot that my right ear was in pain...



while drinking, we were enjoying the live band... the female singer is good, her voice is so power... she is those kind who has those "shi li"... she asked us to dedicate songs for her to sing... they are so friendly.. after their live band finished at 11.30pm... they came over to our tables to say "hi" and introduced themselves.. and wished us a "good nite"... so nice of them...



after that, xiaoqi came over... then we went to Zouk... it was so fun... the music is still the same though... i enjoyed it.. might consider going to zouk during mambo nite "again"...



On thurs, i have difficulty waking up... i seem to have a hangover... gosh... i was so tired while at work... I was like a zombie... sobsob... felt like i regret clubbing on wednesday even though i had fun and enjoyed...

On fri, erwin, me, kelly and adrian are supposed to meet up at IMH at 7pm to play badminton.. however, kelly has work commitments and only managed to finish her work at 8pm... thus when she arrived at IMH, it was already 8.30pm... our booking is from 7 - 9pm... but we played until about 10pm.. after that, we went for supper... while on our way to boat quay to fetch liting and huiping... we saw fireworks... not sure what it is about.. below is photo taken at SMU traffic light..



On sat, annie ask if i wanna go out... after quite alot of sms exchanges... i wanna go bugis... cos last week din manage to finish shopping there... we met at 4pm... I parked at raffles hospital... their charges there are not expensive... the first 3 hours cost me $1.83 only... cheaper as compared to $3 for 3 hours at public carparks.. while shopping, i guess joseph got quite bored... i think he got tired of waiting for us... haa... so sorry joseph... i managed to chance upon a pair of white lacy heels... which i can use for my Actual Day... it only cost me $29...


On sun, i meet up with kelly and adrian to go to their office to help them with their emcee casting.. there were about 7 ppl who came... i was supposed to rate them based on some criteria... to see if they are suitable to be emcee or not... it ended at about 3pm... we proceed to have lunch and went over to tanjong pagar to finish the bridal shops that they have not visited.. We first went to milan... they were okay onli... but i did saw a gown thats nice... it those princess kind, with crystals on the gown... not quite sure how to explain it.. another one is feline... i also liked a wedding gown there! i like it so much, that i even ask them how much they charging for rental... she then told me that for that kind of design she would have to charge me $2500.. but suggest that i buy a package which also cost $2500, which includes one wedding gown, one evening gown and actual day make up, etc... i also went over to a few other bridal shops.. but i dun wish to mention them, as there is also nuthhin special about them... one more to mention is "house of etiquette".. they sell those necessities required for chinese traditions... and of cos, they dun sell gowns... but they sell "kua"... there is one that i like.. the assistant said that it is called "kua wang"... it is sliverish, gold in colour.. it takes about one year to make it... i think even for rental... it also cost $1000+... the below picture is the normal red "kua" that i wanna rent... it has embroidery of the dragon and phoenix.. quite nice... so i decided to give it a try... i dunno why i seem to look farnie or weird in the "kua"... i maybe renting it... it will cost me $298 for rental... and before i take the "kua" out... i have to pay a security deposit of $500... thats alot.. sobsob..


after seeing another few stores, like di gio and thomson... we then proceed to a chinese restaurant for dinner... will download the pictures when im free...



gosh... coming week will be a hectic week for me too... I'll be meeting the AD photographer to discuss about the details and price, i'll also be going for "photoshoot" and blood donation... probably this week, i'll start to find the AD make-up artist or prepare our budget to see what is required to buy...

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Here are some photos of my dog, Girlgirl... =)

GirlGirl in sunglasses... so cute!
GirlGirl in graduation robe and mortarboard... soo cute...
the robe and the mortarboard, is taken from the graduation bear that my mummy bought...
taken while she was asleep...
her 9th birthday on 28th May 2007

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Monday, September 3, 2007

During the week, my days are quite packed. On tuesday, 28/08, i met up with william and kelly. supposedly we were supposed to meet up at minds cafe in boat quay. but william took mc so end up we met up at AMK instead.. we arrived at NEBO, another concept similar to minds cafe.. but no one served us, and we were wondering what games to play... then we order the food.. after that the waiter told william that they are closing at 10pm, so most likely we wun get to play a full 2 hours of the game.. so we walked out and end up at pizza hut.. P.S. Pizza hut also close at 10pm.. i was like =_="... while eating, we also update each other.. then realise that it is our two year aniversary knowing each other since we started out part time studies at PSB...

On friday, 31/08, was my graduation ceremony, at first, i was so worried because i do not have enough tickets for my family. after that then realise that they not so strict after all... so my whole family manage to get seats and also have dinner at the reception.. the robe rental cost SGD70, and i only get to wear it for like 3hours only... i also took a individual, group and family photo package which cost SGD170.. But will only be mailed to me in one or two months time... hope it will come out nice... We took alot of photos... almost like we are the "stars"... while taking the group photos... so many flashes... that i see alot of stars...

Sat, 01/09, Annie and I arrange to meet up to shop at Bugis... But Joseph fall sick.. so we let him rest for two hours before we came out... Jason also went along with us... cos he long time nv come out le... onli work work work... then while on the way walking to bugis village, i saw jinny and sze min... so qiao... this is the second time i saw them when i come out le.. haa.. we update each other abit and i continue to go shopping with annie le... annie came to buy skinny jeans... she was wondering whether to buy black or grey or both... actually the grey one is quite nice... i also wanted to buy... but i also dun have much chance to wear it... mon to friday have to go to work... then onli can wear during weekends... and i dun always go out during the weekends... Now i making the effort to meet up with my frens cos i dun wan to lose contact with them... Today was the start... After that, we walked another street. then annie showed me the cardigan that she bought... then its quite cute... its got a dog shape printed with burberry's signature pattern... i chose a grey one... actually annie wanna buy a yellow colour de.. but dun have, so she also bought a grey one... at this point in time, joseph was really sick already... so no choice annie and joseph have to go home le... so left me and jason.. thus we went to ikea... but before there we went to eat dim sum near changi village hotel... then he show me around changi village hotel.. the place is not bad... and the scenery at level 8 restaurant is quite nice, you can see the sea... but cannot go at nite.. cos at nite cannot see anything le... solemnisation there would also be very nice... too bad no chance le... haa... after that, we went to ikea, walk around to get ideas for my future home... but still no idea... very confused... i dunno what kind of concept i want.. and i dun wan to pay so much jus to let a designer do it..

Sun,02/09, I slacked at home the whole day... i sleep alot...!! then i met up with sujuan at compass pt... we ate dessert at delifrance... Sujuan mentioned to me that she want go on short trip.. i also want!!! she interested to go genting... i also dun mind... i wanna go also... while eating, we looked thru the pictures (ROM, my phuket trip in july, our Bangkok trip in may, my genting trip in july, graduation on sat) then i also gave her the photos that she wants... my lap top is so heavy!!! i wanna change my laptop!! but i got no money to change... anyway, it is a want not a need... so it can wait... after we settled the bill, btw, thank you sujuan for the treat!! We went to metro, see what we can buy. Metro is having big sale... it really is big discount... i bought three tops.. that i wanted, it is those kind of knitted wear, cardigan material.. after 70% discount.. it onli cost me $5.97 per top... so cheap that i bought three...

Thats all for the week... upcoming week, most likely will be meeting up with jinny and szemin or be doing bazaar at Lime *scape, cineleisure there... and on sunday, i will be helping out with the casting for emcee.. anyone interested to be emcee for wedding can let me know...

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Friday, August 31, 2007

Finally, the long waited graduation ceremony... after so much sacrifices, hard work, burnt weekdays nite and weekends... we finally see the fruit that we beared...
Me, in the process of robing...
Mummy gave me a bouquet of sunflower... with a graduation bear also... nice...
me in graduation robe...
while studying, we were project members... yeah!! my family... me and kelly
phototaking with one of our favourite tutor...
me and my twin bros... suddenly i feel so short...
me and my bros and sis...
the three musketeers (LU de)

before the graduation ceremony gonna start... everyone waiting for the academic procession.. spot my head...
me on stage...
me and dear
me and our classmates.. congrats to everyone...
our lecturer.. alistair... he is a very nice guy... very joker... and of cos... stuart west... another very nice guy... also joker while teaching us... enjoyed his lessons also...
this photo is nice...
throwing our mortarboard...
jumping elated-ly...
me jumping alone...

my mummy wearing my hat...
we are family...

the group photo... class of 2007... can spot where am i??
close up... can spot? must be obvious already...

throwing our hats.. haa..
erwin wearing the mortarboard...
another family photo
me n erwin


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